Hey you all beautiful people, this is my 1st blog and I hope everyone out there reading this would be able to connect with it, some or the other way!!!!
Humans are often confused between "the want" and "the need". Want is something that is a wish, with ambiguous commitments of getting fulfilled. This means it may or it may not come true. Need is a thing which is necessary for you to grow but you will not be inclined towards it as strong as you are inclined towards the former which is hence termed as a want, a willingness, a desire, an ever wanting need may be, what do you say!
I always ask myself a question why this "IF" word has so much power in it? We are used to saying if I had done this...if only I could had achieved it...and many more. But do you even realize why this IF has so much value in it?
Lets go back to our childhood days, obviously this word itself might have made you nostalgic! Didn't it? I know and the biggest inspiration for me to write is feeling each and every word I write. If I myself cannot feel it than how can I expect my audience to feel it!! Isn't it?! Do you remember how were we during our play school days? yes, yes, obviously! Quite silent yet notorious, ask me how! As a kid, I was too stubborn and cranky about the surroundings and most importantly about the toys and chocolates my parents used to buy me. I knew that up to a certain level my obdurate nature would be entertained and taken care of. How strange it is, being a child also, our brain knew all the techniques on how to establish and satisfy our iron-willed demands and achieve the wishes we want to! Till the time we urged for that one chocolate or candy which was not in our hand, we kept on crying for it and waiting for it which means we valued that "feeling of want" so much that we did not stop until we achieved it and once we got that candy, it became so easy for us to boast the same candy in front of our siblings and make them also cry. Funny it is...Flaunting the same thing once having it in our hand rather than valuing it and longing for the same when it was not in our hand!
Having said that, let us go back to the actual topic in the discussion. We know that we always crave and long for the things we do not have which is why, this IF has so much value just like till the time we did not have candy in our hand. But once we get it, we always have two options- either value it and preserve it or flaunt it and misuse it.
Connection of this IF, till we do not have it and VALUING it after we have it is too deep to understand these days because in the world full of races and wars of getting at the peak in every aspect, that we tend to forget the roots of these basic feelings. You may say that the context in which I started writing and later on it has many diversions, asking yourself a question is it even worth to read? The answer is definitely yes because just the way a necklace is made of multiple bead's, threaded and attached with one another, having each other's support, in the same way this topic has multiple emotions and attributes which are interrelated, not so good to talk about one and leaving the others aside.
If there was just one emotion in the world- say for example happiness, then we would not have known the value of the same emotion because it was with us 24*7 and as we know the thing or object staying near by us always, seldom retains its value forever! Hence we have varieties of emotions like sadness, grief, sorrow, pain, happiness, anger and many more so that we realize the value of one when the other is not with us and vice versa. Just like we can say- "agar class me har koi 1st rank lata, toh uska value nai rehta, but kyuki koi toh last aya jiski wajah se woh 1st rank wale ki kadar hui". May be childhood is the phase where we can relate a lot many things in life, even though we did not have much sense then like we do have now but still there was one innocent person in all of us, who taught us many things!
What do you think- how does a mind and heart think? Do they always meet at an intersection point? Do they always agree with each other? Are they always in sync while taking any decision? What do they think individually? How do they react and how do they take two ways out, out of every given situation? Do you agree?
Keep in touch for my 2nd blog where we will talk from the very point we left and share more about our experience and meaning of this ominous entity called as LIFE!
I write because I love writing and I cannot lie about the things I love!~
~MS
